Am also gay… What are the way to tell if you have anus gonorrhea? I've asked him if has had sex with anyone else he said no of course. does gonorrheas have to be pass on by a 3 personn?
You have to get it from someone else, so one of you has had sex with someone else. Either of you could have gotten it first though, people don't always show symptoms or show them right away. you both need to go to the doctor to get treated.
if he has it you have it