My girlfriend has these symptoms and is worried.
Her skin wouldn't be described as painful, but it is very sensitive and doesnt feel normal.
Also, her period has been early and is very long, and wasn't normal for the last few weeks of this abnormal episode. Only today it became a "normal" period.

Thanks!

Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a couple of weeks now without a condom, we are completely faithful but for some reason we are concerned now (I know we should of thought about it earlier) about std's. Is there any danger now of us catching an std's from unprotected sex or would the damage already be done. Does it mean we are clean or just carriers? should we get tested? Is there any difference if I didn't finish inside her?

Yes there could still be a cause for concern. most common STIs are asymptomatic (have no symptoms) and they don't transmit 100% of the time. Meaning either of you could still have an STI and not have passed it to the other yet. And again, MOST STIs have NO SYMPTOMS so you can NEVER rely on the absence of symptoms as a diagnostic tool.

You both still need to be tested!

Some STIs can be spread with simple (genital) skin to skin contact/rubbing and ejaculation or sperm/vaginal fluids are not required for transmission to occur.

Make a date with your girlfriend and go together to be tested for STIs (and be sure and have a throat swab done if you engage in oral sex and a rectal swab if you engage in anal sex). And I would think about using condoms at least until you get the results.

Most STD's have no symptoms for weeks, months, or even years. just because you have no symptoms doesn't mean you don't have an STD.

Get tested. Having sex without a condom when you have no idea if you're infected is stupid.

No, it makes no difference if you don't ejaculate inside her. some STD's transmit through skin contact alone, and her vaginal fluids, or your pre-ejaculate can still carry an STD.

I really hope she's on the pill and you're not just relying on the pull-out method. Unless you want to be a daddy in the near future.

You can have sex with someone and be exposed to an STD and still not catch it. for example, some people have intercourse multiple times with a person with HIV and don't end up contracting the virus. On the other hand, some people have intercourse with a person with HIV just once and they contract it. Sex is risky business. my suggestion: get tested, it couldn't hurt.

it easy to get carried away with yourself on the first time you have intercourse with your new partner,. eveyone probably has at some point i know i have. (but single now so not really apply to me).
if you are concerned though i would go and get you and your patner tested just for peace of mind

A lot of STDs have no symptoms for the first few months, or even years. there are a few that affect only women, but men can be carriers (example: the form of herpes that causes cervical cancer–it has no symptoms for either sex but only women can get cancer from it). If either of you had sex with someone else before you started dating, and did not get tested afterwards, you both should do so now. It's cheap (and sometimes free) if you go to the health department. call and ask about it. you can make an appointment over the phone, and when you go, no one will be the wiser as to why you're there, except the nurse.

As to whether or not the damage is already done–it depends on a lot of things. best thing for you both to do would be to get tested, just to make sure. That way, if one of you has something that the other hasn't contracted yet, you can take preventative measures to ensure that the other one doesn't catch it.

It doesn't make a difference whether or not you finished inside her. some STDs are passed through skin-to-skin contact, and some through contact with bodily secretions–both of which the two of you have experienced whether you finished inside her or not.

My girlfriend was pregnant and got an abortion she had a complete successful abortion after 2 weeks she is starting to feel sleepy sense of smell heightened and all the other symptoms for being pregnant why is this could this happen after having an abortion? we did have sex but i pulled out didn't go off in her so is this normal?

you shouldnt have sex that soon after an abortion…..but anyways she could be just about to start her period.

This is because her body is making a big transition from being pregnant to have the baby completely out of her body. it takes time for her body to get back to normal so don't worry about it, it should get back to normal in no time.

Her hormones are still active as if she were prego. it will take her body some time to get used to the fact that there is no baby.

her body still thinks she is pregnant

I don't know why she's having those symptoms, but you need to know that she CAN get pregnant whether you get off inside her or not. even if you put it in her for a second, unless you are wearing a condom, she can get pregnant.

Your pathetic, an abortion is probably the worst thing you could have done, some people would kill to have a baby but here you are someone who is able to have kids killing them. your sick.

You pulled out? Did you ever think that maybe that is why she got pregnant in the first place?

Pull out doesn't always work….take it offensively when I tell you to quit having sex unprotected and so carelessly when you don't want the baby that you are making!!!!!!!!!!!! Grow up and quit being so stupid

How dare you get an abortion and kill a little child! what if your parents abortioned you?!?! Huh?!?! it wouldn't be okay then would it? You should be ashamed of yourselves! You are the ones who had sex and got pregnant in the first place! May God forgive you

God, man, use birth control! the reason she feels like this is when a woman terminates a pregnancy or miscarries, her hormones are still thinking she's pregnant. it takes time for the hormones to normalize, maybe three to six months.

it is extremely easy to get pregnant after an abortion.it only takes one sperm to get in there.one could easily leak out without your knowledge.she's probably pregnant again. use a condom next time.

Why are you guys even having sex again if you killed the outcome of the last time you guys had sex? And your still not wearing condoms? what the HELL!!!!?!?!?! Did you guys miss out on Sex Ed class? Sex=babies, and I think you need to learn about that before acting upon sex again! Abortionism is not a form of birth control, so get on some already and use damn condoms before you murder another child.

After an abortion her body will still think it has a baby, Im not sure but I think this is fairly common to women who get an abortion or have a miscarriage. her body will take a while to come to terms with the loss of the baby, as according to the body it was not time for it to leave. You should keep an eye on here overall health and mood as abortion, like miscarriage can lead to some depression or other mild health effects.

How can you live with your self after killing a baby that's like murder!

She still has the hormone, a test might even still show up positive. Give it a few more days, if it doesn't start tapering off, she needs to see a doctor.

It might be pseudocyesis a.k.a pseudopregnancy.

I hope it was a joint decision , and you didn`t push her into this

none of my biz, but still.

She could be pregnant again. After an abortion or miscarriage, many women are even more fertile than before. Pulling out is ineffective because pre-ejaculate still contains millions of viable sperm.

The other possibility is that her body is still processing pregnancy hormone (HcG) from the previous pregnancy. Sometimes this takes awhile to leave the body. in this case, taking a pregnancy test at home wouldn't be reliable. she needs to go to her doctor.

The best thing you both can do is to start using birth control of some kind. the pull-out method is a bit like Russian Roulette and is very ineffective.

Good luck!

Well she could be pregnant AGAIN. Most people don't know that there is PRE EJAC fluids before orgasm.

OMG PEOPLE ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO STUPID!!!!!!!

WHO KNOCKS UP THEIR GIRLFRIEND, LETS HER MURDER a BABY AND THEN STICKS IT IN HERE AGAIN W/OUT a CONDOM OR BIRTH CONTROL

SERIOUSLY YOUR BOTH GOING TO H$LL GROW THE F UP

Most likely her body hasnt realized that she is no longer pregnant. it will take a few weeks and she should be back to normal. If not i would consult your doctor.

I agree with the others about the hormones and/or possibly period-time.

How long ago did she have the abortion?

If she had an abortion, I think she would have bled while she healed, similar to the way women bleed after childbirth. Can anyone answer this part, because I am not sure. Did she bleed? Are you POSITIVE she had an abortion??

Pulling out isn't birth control–precum has more than enough "little guys" in it to turn the treat back into trick–is she pregnant again?

Okay, I found this web page on the internet–it should answer your questions…but you will need to take a look at it yourself to find the information you need–since I know you probably have more questions than the one posted here.

you shouldnt be having sex yet her body is still healing physically, not to mention the mental healing she needs to do. at least put something on it next time dear. as for her still feeling pregnant you must go to the doctors to get an ultra sound to make sure there is nothing left behind its very serious and potentially fatal. get down t'clinic. fast.

Did you not learn your lesson pulling out isn't a successful method of BC and yes she has a higher chance of getting pregnant after an abortion, just like after having a child it is higher. it could be many thing but I think you need to wrap it b4 you tap it!

alright dude. could be pms and or prego harmones still
either way i've had several boyfriends do the pull out thing for years and i never got prego. then again they weren't pre-cummers. if you precum then the pull out method is at high risk. i think it's genetic some guys do and some don't i've been with both. my man doesn't believe pre-*** exists….but believe me it does, he still claims it's a myth whatever.
you can tho *** in her at the end of her period. we did that for YEARS and years i never got prego my sister too. so thas a safe way
becareful if you precum thats all i'm saying that **** is loaded.

i hope this was her decision this is sad for me to hear, why would you *** in her if you don't precum and why would leave it in her with out a condom? thats sorta cruel. i can't imagine the drugs i'd have to be snorting to deal an abortion

Why in the world would you have unprotected sex again. How many abortions do you want to have? that is soooo irresponsible. You both are not responsible enough to be having sex at all. Grow up.

you still have the symptoms for the next few weeks because of the horomones and so forth. it will slowly fad away and be gone soon enough.

Well statistics say that within the year you will split never to be together again.

By the way , this was published about 1-2 months ago

Abortion and mental health disorders: evidence from a 30-year longitudinal study{dagger}
David M. Fergusson, PhD, L. John Horwood, MSc and Joseph M. Boden, PhD
The British Journal of Psychiatry (2008) 193: 444-451

"women who had had abortions had rates of mental disorder that were about 30% higher. there were no consistent associations between other pregnancy outcomes and mental health.:

And a great man are you, a father and husband to envy. but like I said statistically you will split up soon, then she will start having mental problems.

have the child omg ABORION IS BAD ok thats why mccain should of gotten in office

This morning, I made out with my girlfriend. This afternoon, she began feeling very sick all of a sudden, fever of almost 103, and all the symptoms. She just got diagnosed with influenza type A and is very sick. am I doomed? how long before I show symptoms?

HA! Oh yeeeeeaaahhhhh!!!!
You have two days before you begin showing symptoms. there is -no- way around it unless you have had that specific strain of influenza. there is no way that you have had that specific strain of influenza before because it continually mutates! so, go buy the medicine now and make your bed very comfortable so your stay in it will be okay for you. since you are definitely doomed anyway, you might as well go make out with her some more! you either have influenza or you don't, and you -do- have influenza now, so adding more won't make -any- difference in your symptoms. Go! Make out with her! She will feel a little better because of it!

your screwed.
probly about a day

answer mine please

Often, (not every time) a few hours after I kiss my gf I get fever like symptoms such as muscle soreness and fatigue. These symptoms last for a night and dissapear in the morning and never show up again unless we kiss again. my gf doesn't have any symptoms and is in good health, this does not seem like MONO because MONO only happens once in life time and the symptoms last for few weeks not just one night.

Maybe you are allergic to her lip balm? Make her wash those lips before you try kissing her again and see what happens.

The more likely reason is that all of your blood is being concentrated in one area…if you know what I mean…Your blood is gathering at the wrong head and it is causing you to feel light headed.

I think your girlfriend may be an amoeba.

your girlfriend sold her soul to the devil

I am 5 wks pregnant and have little to no symptoms. I am wondering what I should expect, if anything, at this stage. I plan to buy a baby book and consult with my dr. at my next appointment, but in the meantime I am just nervous as I only have slight back ache and pulling feeling in stomach.

Maybe it will be an easy pregnancy!

The Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy, by Vickie Iovine, is great!

I didnt have any symptoms till i was about 6wks. of course you may not even get sick.

Morning sickness normally sets in around now, and tiredness, sore breast etc

Dont worry too much if you dont have all the symptoms, you could just be lucky

Congrats on the pregnancy

no need to worry alot of women don't experience any symptons until 6-8 weeks pregnant so just sit back and enjoy this time

im 16 years and for the past week or so i've been having dull genital pain that can range of my lower stomach to my testicles. this pain is almost fully relieved by standing, also lately ive been noticing that sometimes ill go piss 3 times in 20 minutes then i wont piss all day and right when i have to piss ill feel like im about to piss my pants. also when i am peeing i feel like im sort of like strain my bladder and squeezing it out. also toward the end not all of it comes out and i have to stand there shacking it for a minute.. i looked up symptoms for congestive prostatitis and most of mine seem to match that, also it is said to be caused by frequent sexual arousal without ejaculation and this happens a LOT when im with my girlfriend. i went to a doctor today and they said i was too young to have this and they also tested me for infections and such and everything came up negetive and no verdict was made im just worried theres sometimes extremely wrong with my testicles and i dont know.. also do you think its safe to masturbate?

Doesn't seem like things are right..

When you feel you have to pee you should be able to step up and let it fly..

I don't claim to have the answer, but recommend you talk to a doctor..

My friend ate out his girlfriend and had symptoms such increased heart rate, vomiting, and shaking. this happened multiple times so please disclose any info. immediately

eww she must have been a dirty beetch

Sounds like you were just nervous.

Pretty unlikely….seems more likely that it was anxiety, nerves maybe. of course anyone's heart rate would be increased during sex.

dude, its probably an STD, he prob got one now

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My girlfriend has it.

Only a certain strand of HPV causes warts, and its the least common. Otherwise men are just carriers, with no symptoms or effects.

HPV causes warts. Some people have no symptoms.

uhh you will not show any symptoms… you do not have a pussy for it it grow in…. but you can be a carrier.. it gets in the blood…. and it does not really do anything to men… but for women it can cause cancer of the uterus…and the virus can go away on its own.. in men it usually goes away easy…

hope your girlfreind dose not know you are telling everyone, all you will get if anything is a few bumps on the base of your thingy that cant really even be seen and on the plus side it is VERY easy to be treated if you a guy so smile its nothing

If a woman has HPV, her chances of getting cervical cancer and other similar cancer is a lot higher. also make sure she gets a pap test often. in addition, you could become infected and became a carrier infecting other women in the future

Genital warts are the symptom and yes men do get them. They usually won't show up for months/years on males though… it will be a long and painful process if you ignore them once you realize that you have them All it takes is skin contact to contract it… Dermatologist will help you the most if you do break out with warts. Good luck…