My friend is not eating lunch's at school and I don't think she eats breakfast, but once at my house I made her a nice diner and later I heard her in my bathroom trowing up. I also found some laxatives in her bag, what does she have bulimia, anorexia, EDNOS, or something else? I really want to help her, but I don't know what she has yet… can someone help me? Thanks

Maybe you're jumping to conclusions.
She could have thrown up because she felt sick?
But since you found the laxatives, maybe not, but you also said she does not eat at school, normally people with bulimia binge eat, then throw it all up, and people with anorexia eat only minimal amounts.
(this is just my understanding of it)
I think the best thing to do is confront her about your concerns, she might be resistant to talk about it, but let her know you're only asking because you care, and if you do get solid information that she is anorexic/bulimic or if she has admitted it contact someone, a doctor, her parents, the school.. etc immediately, before it can get any worse (even she begs you not to tell anyone) because it is a mental issue and she will probably need advice and solutions from a professional.

You have to be careful how you handle this, she may withdraw from you if you just try to intervene. the best possible way to help her is to talk to her and gradually bring the conversation around – very gently to talk about how we manage stress and how people do unusual things. Some people drink, some go shopping and some binge. and then ask her if she's ever experienced anything like that.

You can find a lot of information on this on my website – which I hope you will get her to look at eventually. there is some good help out there – and some really bad help too. Just getting someone to not vomit is not what it's about. Bulimia is part of one's nature. She probably is quite a hard worker, work hard play hard – and has many aspects of her life very organised. However, she is statistically likely to have parents whose marriage is struggling, someone in her family (parents or grandparents) alcoholic, and may have had bouts of depression. So this is a fragile landscape and you need to tread very lightly.

If there is anything I can do let me know.
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that is bulimia, not anorexia. that sucks especially since bulimia can make you really sick. your teeth will rot out.

you should tell a family member of her's if they are supportive people .

usually eating disorders occur when the person feels they dont have control. are her parents splitting? did she break up with a boyfriend? did she have to move away? any big events?

Yes, those are all "symptoms" of bulimia, at least. If she also thinks she's fat even being thin or skinny, than she has anorexia too.

Talk to her, the sooner she goes to the doctor, the better.

xxx.

She could have bulimia or anorexia. It's for herself to sort out, don't go to help her unless she is trying to bring up the topic. Comment on her looks too.

If she eats then purges (make herself sick, use laxative or exercise) the I believe she's bulimic, if she doesn't eat at all than she's anorexic.
It's going to be hard to help her.

if her head is starting to wobble cause her small stick-like body can't hold it up, well thats a huge clue

any way you look at it. it's a eating disorder

Common feelings and actions that are linked to anorexia nervosa include:1
* having an intense fear of gaining weight.
* Restricting food or types of food, such as food that contains any kind of fat or sugar.
* Weighing less than 85% of your expected body weight. (In a child or teen, losing or not gaining weight during a growth spurt is a concern.)
* seeing your body as overweight, in spite of being underweight. this is called having a distorted body image.
* Overexercising.
* being secretive around food and not seeing or wanting to talk about having a problem with eating or weight loss.some people who have anorexia also make themselves vomit or use laxatives or diuretics to lose weight (bulimia). Breakdown of the enamel on the teeth is a common symptom of long-term vomiting.
Common physical signs of malnutrition from anorexia include:3
* a low body weight.
* Constipation and slow emptying of the stomach.
* Thinning hair, dry skin, and brittle nails.
* Shrunken breasts.
* stopping or never getting a monthly menstrual period.
* Feeling cold, with a lower-than-normal body temperature.
* Low blood pressure.
* a slow heartbeat (fewer than 60 beats a minute).
* Not feeling pain as you normally would.
* Purplish skin color on the arms and legs from poor blood circulation.
* Swollen feet and hands.
* Yellow-orange skin, especially on the palms of the hands.
People who have anorexia often develop rituals associated with eating. these may include:
* Developing special ways to eat food, hoarding food, collecting recipes, and preparing elaborate meals for other people but not eating the meals themselves.
* Spending a lot of time cutting and rearranging food on their plates to make it look as though they have eaten. they may also hide food or secretly get rid of it during meals.

•Planning your meals frequently
•Refusal to go to social events
•Not eating
•Constantly exercising or asking about weight
•Very thin
•Secretive and shy

mood swings

weight loss?

Some symptoms can be losing 15% or more of body weight. A person who has Anorexia may abuse laxatives, diuretics, and enemas. S/he may also self induce vomiting. for women, menstrual periods may stop happening. there are also symptoms due to malnutrition which are: constipation, digestive discomfort, bloating, dehydration, muscle cramps, and tremors; downy body hair on the face, back, or arms; dull, brittle, thinning hair; flattened breasts, cracked or dry skin, icy hands and/or feet, irregular heartbeat, depression and/or anxiety. Anorexia also causes low levels of estrogen and thyroid hormone, and increased levels of cortisol.

*Suspect a problem if you:
-Have lost at least 15% percent of your weight without a physical illness and still think of yourself as fat.
-Have not had your period in three months in a row.
-Fear being overweight and losing control of your diet.
-Feel that staying hungry is the only way to keep your weight under control.

The vicious eating disorder known to all as anorexia is one of the most deadly out there. More base in females than males, it’s estimated that 1% of all teenage girls have this disorder, and that out of that 1%, up to 10% may die from it.

The individual with this disorder believes they are obese or overweight and have a very poor self-image of themself. In an effort to quickly lose weight by anything means necessary, people with anorexia have been known to starve themselves, take laxatives in order to expell food from the body, and it many cases ultimate amounts of exercise. any of these three are enough to take a terrible toll on the body.

Don’t confuse anorexia with bulimia. Anorexia is when a person anorexia symptoms refuses to eat (or eats very little). Bulimia is when a person consumes large amounts of food (binging) and then force themself to vomit in back up (purging). Both stem from an incredibly poor image of self and the person thinking or feeling very overweight, but they are very different diseases.

What are the symptoms and medical problems?

If you think person might have a qoute with anorexia, here are some short term signs to look for:

Extreme weight loss over a short duration of time

Unwilling to eat in front of others

Unusual concern about calorie intake

For women only: 3 consecutively missed menstrual cycles

These are just some of the most base signs that person may be anorexic. this is by no means a complete list nor do these signs all the time indicate anorexia. this is just a guide to use. if you feel that person you know and love may have a problem, sit down with the person, surround them with friends and family, and have a loving, understanding seminar with them.

And let’s not forget the affects of fertilization on an anorexic, or even a recovering anorexic. Most women gain between 20-25 lbs during their pregnancy. How well do you think person with an eating disorder would react to this?

Depriving your body of food while you are pregnant can take away nourishment from your unborn child and put his or her life in jeopardy. Children who are born to anorexic mothers may produce heart disease, underactive kidney and liver, and have weak bones and teeth. No child deserves to be handicapped unneccesarily even before they are born!

If anorexia goes undiagnosed and untreated for too long, the effects of this disorder come to be much worse. Some long term effects include:

Lowers mean Body Temperature

Increases the Risk of Developing Osteroperosis and Bulimia

Why do so many people produce anorexia and eating disorders?

The respond is quite simple. Tragic, but simple. We live in a community that equates skinniness with success, happiness, and beauty. when young children are bombarded with these images daily, they produce the idea that they too must look a unavoidable away in order to be accepted by community and be happy. Without the permissible instruction about salutary eating and weight maintainence, many will do anything it takes to lose weight. here are some eye-opening statistics about anorexia, and eating disorders in general.

1% of American women binge and purge as a way to lose weight (bulimia)

10% of female college students have been diagnosed with a full or borderline eating disorder

Only 5 – 10% of all people with an eating disorder are males

10 – 15% of people who suffering from an eating disorder will die because of it

40% of 1st, 2nd, and 3rd grade girls want to be skinnier

80% of 10 year olds worry about their weight

Many children have begun to diet as early as age 9

What a happy world we live in!

These statistics are freightening! What is our world advent to when a 9 year old is more involved about their weight and appearance than playing and having fun? there is more, Much more to life than worrying about weight and your image to others. Sure, there are plently of condition reasons to lose weight, but people with anorexia or other eating disorders are going about the entirely wrong way. It’s time to put an end to this tragedy.

What has led our community to such a low level of moral standard? How can person put themselves, their body, and their house through the rigors of a deadly disorder such as anorexia? It’s not the individual’s fault, that’s for sure. community is to blame for such an epidemic. And yes, I do mean epidemic. people are dying from these disorders daily just so that they feel like they fit into a community who could care less about them.

Is this fair? Nope!

Is this what you want for your children? Nope!

Is it time to do something about teach kids about anorexia and eating disorders? you betcha!

No one deserves to feel like community is manufacture our young ones feel. To feel as if they aren’t good enough, aren’t pretty enough, aren’t skinny enough to function in the world and be happy. It’s unavoidable that something needs to be done about this. More condition instruction needs to be taught in schools with an emphasis on acceptance of all body types so children and teenagers don’t feel as if they is something wrong with them for not looking a supermodel.

Just imagine person from a third world country would think if they knew about the anorexia epidemic happening in America and other, richer parts of the world? To purposely avoid food and starve? Insane! That’s exactly what it is.

Acting now can save lives!

Just imagine five to ten years down the road, I’m willing to bet that person will thank you for potentially salvage their life. once a person gets their head out of the fog of being trapped with an eating disorder like anorexia, it will come to be clear to them how much great their life is without obsessing over food and how they look. it actually takes a drain on the body and the mind and can make life miserable and barely worth living.

Change your life for the great today!

Think of it this way: do you actually want to live this way for the rest of your life? not only are you harming yourself, but think of the emotional damage you are pushing on your friends, family, and loved ones? do you actually want to put them through that? Like anything with a disease or disorder, it takes time to heal and fully recover. Don’t fear. once you get going and your life starts to improve, I’m sure you will see how much great it feels to be salutary and free from the vices of deadly disorder like anorexia.

So start reading and beat anorexia once and for all!hopefully these resources will help those in need and give them the knowledge and treatment they need to turn their life around and fly the grip of this deadly disorder.

Getting help from medical professionals

If you feel you would like to learn more, do not hesitate from contacting your medical doctor with any questions and concerns you may have. Remeber, medical professionals deal with patients with these disorders everyday. They know how to help you.

Do not feel embarassed or ashamed, you are not the only one who has ever had this problem. Leave those emotions in the past because the misery you’ve dealt with is over. with that in mind, be willing to take constructive guidance on how to change and be willing to implement those changes in your life.

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