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		<title>&#8216;Love Hormone&#8217; Arouses Suspicion, Too</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 01:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[SAN ANTONIO — Oxytocin, a hormone &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a rosy reputation &#102;&#111;&#114; getting people to love, trust and generally &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; nice &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#111;&#110;&#101; another, &#099;&#097;&#110; &#103;&#101;&#116; &#100;&#111;&#119;&#110; and dirty, &#097;&#099;&#099;&#111;&#114;&#100;&#105;&#110;&#103; to evidence presented on Jan. 28 at the annual meeting of the Society &#102;&#111;&#114; Personality and Social Psychology. This brain-altering substance apparently amplifies whatever social proclivities [...]]]></description>
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<p>SAN ANTONIO — Oxytocin, a hormone &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; a rosy reputation &#102;&#111;&#114; getting people to love, trust and generally &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; nice &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#111;&#110;&#101; another, &#099;&#097;&#110; &#103;&#101;&#116; &#100;&#111;&#119;&#110; and dirty, &#097;&#099;&#099;&#111;&#114;&#100;&#105;&#110;&#103; to evidence presented on Jan. 28 at the annual meeting of the Society &#102;&#111;&#114; Personality and Social Psychology.</p>
<p>This brain-altering substance apparently amplifies whatever social proclivities a person &#097;&#108;&#114;&#101;&#097;&#100;&#121; possesses, whether positive or negative, &#115;&#097;&#121;&#115; psychologist Jennifer Bartz of Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York City.</p>
<p>Previous work &#104;&#097;&#115; shown &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; a nasal blast of the hormone encourages a &#117;&#115;&#117;&#097;&#108;&#108;&#121; trusting person to become more trusting (Science News Online: &#109;&#097;&#121; 21, 2008), but &#110;&#111;&#119; Bartz and &#104;&#101;&#114; colleagues &#102;&#105;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; it &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101;&#115; a highly suspicious person more uncooperative and hostile than &#101;&#118;&#101;&#114;.</p>
<p>“Oxytocin &#100;&#111;&#101;&#115; not simply &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; everyone feel more secure, trusting and prosocial,” Bartz &#115;&#097;&#121;&#115;.</p>
<p>These new results raise concerns about plans &#098;&#121; some researchers to administer oxytocin to people &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; autism and other psychiatric conditions &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; include social difficulties, she adds.</p>
<p>Her team studied 14 people diagnosed &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; borderline personality disorder and 13 volunteers &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#110;&#111; psychiatric conditions. Symptoms of borderline personality disorder include severe insecurity about relationships, fears of abandonment and constant, needy reassurance-seeking from partners.</p>
<p>Borderline personality disorder &#117;&#115;&#117;&#097;&#108;&#108;&#121; occurs in women, but Bartz’s sample included four men. &#104;&#101;&#114; group of healthy participants included seven men.</p>
<p>Members of each group played a computer game &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#097;&#110; experimenter posing &#097;&#115; a research volunteer. In each of three rounds, volunteers &#104;&#097;&#100; to predict whether &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; partner would cooperate &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; them, &#115;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; each player &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; &#109;&#097;&#107;&#101; $6, or if the partner would leave the game in order to claim $4 &#097;&#108;&#111;&#110;&#101;.</p>
<p>Volunteers who suspected the partner of bad intent &#099;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; leave the game early and claim $4 &#102;&#111;&#114; themselves.</p>
<p>Borderline personality players of &#098;&#111;&#116;&#104; sexes left the game early far more &#111;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#110; &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; receiving &#097;&#110; oxytocin nasal spray than &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; whiffing a placebo spray. Inhaling the hormone prodded &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; &#097;&#108;&#114;&#101;&#097;&#100;&#121; high levels of hostile suspicion and depleted minimal reserves of trust, Bartz suggests.</p>
<p>Psychiatrically healthy players became more cooperative in the money game &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; getting oxytocin, relative to &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; placebo responses.</p>
<p>Nasally inhaling oxytocin &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; magnifies men’s memories of &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; mothers &#097;&#115; being &#101;&#105;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; supportive or not, Bartz &#115;&#097;&#121;&#115;. &#104;&#101;&#114; team &#104;&#097;&#100; 31 men &#102;&#105;&#108;&#108; out surveys on the quality of &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; relationships &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; mothers &#117;&#112; to age 16.</p>
<p>Those who described &#103;&#111;&#111;&#100; maternal relationships remembered mom &#097;&#115; substantially more caring and supportive &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; receiving oxytocin, compared &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; inhaling a placebo spray. &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; whose early home life &#104;&#097;&#100; been troubled remembered mom &#097;&#115; &#109;&#117;&#099;&#104; less caring and supportive &#097;&#102;&#116;&#101;&#114; oxytocin, versus placebo.</p>
<p>Bartz’s team initially described oxytocin’s two-sided influence on men’s maternal memories in the Dec. 14 Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.</p>
<p>These findings underscore &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; “oxytocin is not a love hormone; its effects vary in different people,” remarks psychologist Greg Norman of Ohio State University in Columbus.</p>
<p>Norman and his colleagues &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; found &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; oxytocin stimulates the heart to beat more in sync &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; the breathing cycle in people &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; healthy social lives, but not in people who report constant loneliness.</p>
<p>Other researchers &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; &#114;&#101;&#099;&#101;&#110;&#116;&#108;&#121; reported &#116;&#104;&#097;&#116; oxytocin stimulates greater trust of members of one’s &#111;&#119;&#110; ethnic group and greater suspicion of other ethnicities.</p>
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		<title>Anxiety, depression may not hinder IVF success</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Jan 2011 07:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[NEW YORK (Reuters Health) &#8211; &#097;&#109;&#111;&#110;&#103; women undergoing fertility treatment, symptoms of anxiety and depression &#100;&#111; not &#115;&#101;&#101;&#109; to reduce &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; chances of &#098;&#101;&#099;&#111;&#109;&#105;&#110;&#103; pregnant, &#097; new study suggests. The findings, &#115;&#097;&#121; researchers, &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; offer women some reassurance that &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; psychological symptoms &#100;&#111; not &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; &#097; strong effect on in vitro fertilization (IVF) success. The [...]]]></description>
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<p>NEW YORK (Reuters Health) &#8211; &#097;&#109;&#111;&#110;&#103; women undergoing fertility treatment, symptoms of anxiety and depression &#100;&#111; not &#115;&#101;&#101;&#109; to reduce &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; chances of &#098;&#101;&#099;&#111;&#109;&#105;&#110;&#103; pregnant, &#097; new study suggests.</p>
<p>The findings, &#115;&#097;&#121; researchers, &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; offer women some reassurance that &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; psychological symptoms &#100;&#111; not &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; &#097; strong effect on in vitro fertilization (IVF) success.</p>
<p>The multicenter study enrolled 783 Dutch women &#104;&#097;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; first fertility treatment. &#116;&#104;&#101; women were asked to complete &#097; questionnaire to assess anxiety and depression symptoms &#119;&#104;&#101;&#110; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; were put on &#116;&#104;&#101; waiting list, 1 &#111;&#114; 2 months before &#116;&#104;&#101; procedure, and 1 day before &#116;&#104;&#101; treatment.</p>
<p>A total of 421 women &#104;&#097;&#100; complete information &#097;&#118;&#097;&#105;&#108;&#097;&#098;&#108;&#101; &#102;&#111;&#114; analysis. Overall, anxiety and depression symptoms were unrelated to &#116;&#104;&#101; odds of &#098;&#101;&#099;&#111;&#109;&#105;&#110;&#103; pregnant. These signs of psychological &#100;&#105;&#115;&#116;&#114;&#101;&#115;&#115; were &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; unrelated to &#116;&#104;&#101; cancellation rates.</p>
<p>The findings &#100;&#111; not minimize &#116;&#104;&#101; importance of psychological well-being in women &#104;&#097;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; IVF, &#116;&#104;&#101; researchers report in &#116;&#104;&#101; journal Human Reproduction. Studies &#115;&#104;&#111;&#119; that &#109;&#097;&#110;&#121; women suffer anxiety and depression after &#097; failed IVF attempt, and research &#105;&#115; &#115;&#116;&#105;&#108;&#108; needed to &#115;&#101;&#101; &#104;&#111;&#119; to best identify and treat these women.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s more, &quot;stress&quot; &#115;&#104;&#111;&#117;&#108;&#100; be considered &#097; &quot;wide concept,&quot; and &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; study did not &#108;&#111;&#111;&#107; at &#097;&#108;&#108; &#116;&#104;&#101; forms stress &#099;&#097;&#110; &#116;&#097;&#107;&#101; &#8212; &#111;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#112;&#111;&#115;&#115;&#105;&#098;&#108;&#101; impact on IVF success, explained lead researcher Dr. Bea Lintsen of Radboud University Nijmegen Medical Center in &#116;&#104;&#101; Netherlands.</p>
<p>Still, Lintsen told Reuters Health, &quot;&#116;&#104;&#101; message &#099;&#097;&#110; be reassuring.</p>
<p>The chance of pregnancy &#115;&#101;&#101;&#109;&#115; not be influenced by anxiety &#111;&#114; depression.&quot;</p>
<p>Some &#112;&#097;&#115;&#116; studies &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; linked psychological &#100;&#105;&#115;&#116;&#114;&#101;&#115;&#115; to &#097; &#108;&#111;&#119;&#101;&#114; likelihood of IVF success, &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101; &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115; &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; &#102;&#111;&#117;&#110;&#100; &#110;&#111; &#115;&#117;&#099;&#104; connection. &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; study, according to &#116;&#104;&#101; researchers, appears to be &#116;&#104;&#101; &#108;&#097;&#114;&#103;&#101;&#115;&#116; &#111;&#110;&#101; to date to &#108;&#111;&#111;&#107; at &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; relationship.</p>
<p>They point &#111;&#117;&#116;, however, that &#102;&#117;&#114;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; large studies &#097;&#114;&#101; needed to &quot;reveal more information &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101; interrelationship &#098;&#101;&#116;&#119;&#101;&#101;&#110; emotions and fertility.&quot;</p>
<p>For now, Lintsen &#115;&#097;&#105;&#100;, it&#8217;s &#112;&#111;&#115;&#115;&#105;&#098;&#108;&#101; that counseling women that there &#105;&#115; &#097; low likelihood that depression &#111;&#114; anxiety symptoms will harm &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; IVF success &#109;&#097;&#121; actually improve &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; mental health.</p>
<p>SOURCE: Human Reproduction, January 29, 2009.</p>
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		<title>A famous mother&#8217;s voice</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Nov 2010 17:17:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Click &#116;&#111; view &#099;&#097;&#112;&#116;&#105;&#111;&#110; Murkoff Heidi Murkoff, &#116;&#104;&#101; best-selling American author of &#097; series of books on pregnancy &#097;&#110;&#100; parenting, visited Egypt recently at &#116;&#104;&#101; invitation of &#097; leading diapers company, in order &#116;&#111; hold &#097; seminar giving information &#097;&#110;&#100; advice &#116;&#111; mothers hoping &#116;&#111; raise happy &#097;&#110;&#100; healthy children. Herself &#116;&#104;&#101; mother of &#116;&#119;&#111; [...]]]></description>
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<p>Heidi Murkoff, &#116;&#104;&#101; best-selling American author of &#097; series of books on pregnancy &#097;&#110;&#100; parenting, visited Egypt recently at &#116;&#104;&#101; invitation of &#097; leading diapers company, in order &#116;&#111; hold &#097; seminar giving information &#097;&#110;&#100; advice &#116;&#111; mothers hoping &#116;&#111; raise happy &#097;&#110;&#100; healthy children. Herself &#116;&#104;&#101; mother of &#116;&#119;&#111; grown-up children, Murkoff is married &#097;&#110;&#100; lives in southern California. &#104;&#101;&#114; Cairo seminar &#119;&#097;&#115; attended by &#097; host of celebrities &#097;&#110;&#100; media figures, as &#119;&#101;&#108;&#108; as by many &#110;&#101;&#119; mothers. </p>
<p> &#116;&#104;&#101; &#105;&#100;&#101;&#097; for Murkoff&#8217;s first book &#099;&#097;&#109;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#104;&#101;&#114; when she &#119;&#097;&#115; herself pregnant for &#116;&#104;&#101; first time. Murkoff found that existing titles did not answer all &#104;&#101;&#114; &#113;&#117;&#101;&#115;&#116;&#105;&#111;&#110;&#115;, &#097;&#110;&#100; so she &#100;&#101;&#099;&#105;&#100;&#101;&#100; &#116;&#111; write &#104;&#101;&#114; own. &quot;I craved reassurance. I needed &#115;&#111;&#109;&#101;&#111;&#110;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#116;&#101;&#108;&#108; &#109;&#101; that all &#116;&#104;&#101; seemingly random symptoms I &#104;&#097;&#100; &#119;&#101;&#114;&#101; normal,&quot; she explains. &quot;When I wrote &#116;&#104;&#101; book, I &#119;&#097;&#115; on &#097; mission &#116;&#111; help &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; parents sleep at night.&quot;</p>
<p> However, that &#119;&#097;&#115; not &#116;&#104;&#101; only reason that caused &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; 23-year-old advertising copywriter &#8212; as she &#119;&#097;&#115; then &#8212; &#116;&#111; deliver &#097; book proposal for &#097;&#110; encyclopaedic guide &#116;&#111; pregnancy &#116;&#119;&#111; hours before she &#119;&#097;&#115; due &#116;&#111; go into labour &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#104;&#101;&#114; first child. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#101; &#119;&#097;&#115; &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; &#116;&#111; &#105;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110; that, for Murkoff went on &#116;&#111; write &#097;&#110; entire bookshelf of titles dedicated &#116;&#111; helping parents learn what &#116;&#111; expect in pregnancy &#097;&#110;&#100; childbirth.</p>
<p> Since that first book &#119;&#097;&#115; published nearly 27 years &#097;&#103;&#111;, Murkoff&#8217;s bestselling <i>What &#116;&#111; Expect (</i> WTE) series of pregnancy &#097;&#110;&#100; parenting books &#104;&#097;&#115; &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112;&#101;&#100; guide &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110; 40 million families worldwide from conception through &#116;&#104;&#101; toddler years &#097;&#110;&#100; &#098;&#101;&#121;&#111;&#110;&#100;. &#110;&#111;&#119; in &#097; fourth edition, Murkoff&#8217;s <i>What &#116;&#111; Expect When You&#8217;re Expecting</i> &#104;&#097;&#115; been translated into 40 languages worldwide &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#097;&#115; been on <i>The</i> <i>New York Times</i> Best Seller List for &#109;&#111;&#114;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#097;&#110; 480 weeks. According &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101; US newspaper <i>USA Today</i>, &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; parenting book, known as &#097; Bible &#116;&#111; mothers &#097;&#099;&#114;&#111;&#115;&#115; &#116;&#104;&#101; world, is read by 93 &#112;&#101;&#114; cent of all expecting mothers &#119;&#104;&#111; read &#097; pregnancy guide.</p>
<p> &#116;&#104;&#101; books are meticulously compiled by Murkoff &#097;&#110;&#100; &#097; team of medical writers in order &#116;&#111; ensure that &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; contain every up-to-date nugget of research imaginable. Murkoff&#8217;s commitment &#116;&#111; parents &#097;&#110;&#100; babies &#104;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; led &#104;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#111; co-found &#116;&#104;&#101; What &#116;&#111; Expect Foundation, &#097; non-profit organisation dedicated &#116;&#111; helping low-income families &#112;&#108;&#097;&#110; for healthy pregnancies, safe deliveries, &#097;&#110;&#100; healthy, happy babies. </p>
<p> Women all &#111;&#118;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#101; world, including Egyptian women, &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; felt blessed by Murkoff&#8217;s titles. Nevine, &#097; mother of three children of &#115;&#105;&#120; years, three years &#097;&#110;&#100; &#115;&#105;&#120; months, got &#104;&#101;&#114; first What &#116;&#111; Expect book as &#097; gift when she &#119;&#097;&#115; pregnant &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#104;&#101;&#114; first daughter seven years &#097;&#103;&#111;. Since then, she &#104;&#097;&#115; collected &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115; &#097;&#110;&#100; still refers &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; &#116;&#111; help &#104;&#101;&#114; understand &#104;&#101;&#114; children.</p>
<p> &quot;I feel &#116;&#104;&#101; books address every single question I &#104;&#097;&#118;&#101; ever &#104;&#097;&#100; &#097;&#098;&#111;&#117;&#116; pregnancy, infancy &#097;&#110;&#100; toddlerhood. It&#8217;s like &#104;&#097;&#118;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#097; doctor &#097;&#110;&#100; child- development expert at &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; fingertips,&quot; she says.</p>
<p> According &#116;&#111; Nevine, &#116;&#104;&#101; books are written in &#097; simple way, &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; lots of detail, options &#097;&#110;&#100; &#105;&#100;&#101;&#097;&#115;. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; divided into clear chapters, &#097;&#110;&#100; issues are addressed &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; humour. &quot;&#116;&#104;&#101; best &#112;&#097;&#114;&#116; of &#116;&#104;&#101; books is that &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are reassuring &#097;&#110;&#100; encouraging,&quot; she says. &quot;For example, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; advise mothers not &#116;&#111; smoke &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are pregnant, &#098;&#117;&#116; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; reassure smoking mothers that &#105;&#116; is alright &#116;&#111; &#115;&#116;&#111;&#112; &#100;&#117;&#114;&#105;&#110;&#103; pregnancy.&quot;</p>
<p> Nevine refers &#116;&#111; Murkoff&#8217;s <i>WTE When You&#8217;re Expecting</i>, <i>WTE &#116;&#104;&#101; First Year</i> &#097;&#110;&#100; <i>WTE &#116;&#104;&#101; Toddler Years</i>. According &#116;&#111; &#104;&#101;&#114;, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; emphasise that every pregnancy, parent, baby, &#097;&#110;&#100; child is &#100;&#105;&#102;&#102;&#101;&#114;&#101;&#110;&#116;, &#097;&#110;&#100; that mothers should try not &#116;&#111; compare &#116;&#104;&#101;&#105;&#114; experiences &#116;&#111; &#116;&#104;&#111;&#115;&#101; of &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114;&#115;. &#105;&#110;&#115;&#116;&#101;&#097;&#100;, &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; should try &#116;&#111; relax &#097;&#110;&#100; enjoy &#116;&#104;&#101; phase &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are in. &quot;I &#097;&#108;&#119;&#097;&#121;&#115; recommend &#116;&#104;&#101; books &#097;&#110;&#100; &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#109; &#116;&#111; my friends,&quot; Nevine adds. &quot;Don&#8217;t bother &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; books. Stick &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#116;&#104;&#101;&#115;&#101;, &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115; will &#098;&#101; ok.&quot; </p>
<p> However, according &#116;&#111; Radwa Essam, &#116;&#104;&#101; mother of infant boy Ibrahim, &#116;&#104;&#101; books &#109;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101; &#116;&#111;&#111; much detail, &#111;&#114; worry mothers, &#101;&#115;&#112;&#101;&#099;&#105;&#097;&#108;&#108;&#121; in &#097; first pregnancy. &quot;I prefer direct contact &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; either my doctor &#111;&#114; my mother &#116;&#111; &#103;&#101;&#116; &#097;&#110; answer,&quot; she says, though sometimes websites can &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; offer &#097; quick answer. </p>
<p> For TV presenter Jasmine Taha, &#116;&#104;&#101; WTE series &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097; lifesaver when she &#119;&#097;&#115; pregnant 19 years &#097;&#103;&#111;. &quot;&#105;&#116; &#119;&#097;&#115; my first year of marriage, first year of college &#097;&#110;&#100; first pregnancy, &#097;&#110;&#100; on &#116;&#111;&#112; of all &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; I &#119;&#097;&#115; &#097;&#098;&#114;&#111;&#097;&#100; &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#110;&#111; family &#116;&#111; take care of &#109;&#101;,&quot; she recalls. &#116;&#104;&#101; WTE books answered &#109;&#111;&#115;&#116; of &#104;&#101;&#114; &#113;&#117;&#101;&#115;&#116;&#105;&#111;&#110;&#115; &#097;&#110;&#100; &#104;&#101;&#108;&#112;&#101;&#100; &#104;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#111; embark on &#116;&#104;&#101; journey of parenthood.</p>
<p> Jailan Gaafar, mother of &#097; new- born baby, &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; admires &#116;&#104;&#101; WTE series, first reading &#116;&#104;&#101; books when she &#119;&#097;&#115; pregnant &#097;&#110;&#100; feeling that &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; would &#098;&#101; best friends &#116;&#111; &#104;&#101;&#114; &#111;&#118;&#101;&#114; &#104;&#101;&#114; life &#116;&#111; come. </p>
<p> &quot;&#116;&#104;&#101; book makes you feel you&#8217;re entering &#097; &#110;&#101;&#119; world, discussing every detail of &#105;&#116; &#097;&#110;&#100; comforting you,&quot; she says. For Gaafar, &#116;&#104;&#101; best &#112;&#097;&#114;&#116; of Murkoff&#8217;s work is that &#105;&#116; makes you feel normal despite &#116;&#104;&#101; &#099;&#104;&#097;&#110;&#103;&#101;&#115; &#116;&#111; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; body. She still recalls &#097; sentence from &#116;&#104;&#101; book: &quot;take &#097; good look at &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; waistline, &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; you are &#103;&#111;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#116;&#111; miss &#105;&#116; for &#097; long time &#116;&#111; come.&quot; </p>
<p> Murkoff&#8217;s books remind &#104;&#101;&#114; of &#097;&#110;&#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; bestseller, John Gray&#8217;s book <i>Men are from Mars &#097;&#110;&#100; Women are from Venus</i>. &#116;&#104;&#101;&#121; are for every mother everywhere, she says.</p>
<p> <b>Heidi Murkoff&#8217;s tips for &#104;&#097;&#112;&#112;&#105;&#101;&#114;, healthier babies:</b> </p>
<p> <b>To send &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; baby &#116;&#111; dreamland, try:</b> </p>
<p>- Rocking, swaying &#111;&#114; patting him gently on &#116;&#104;&#101; &#098;&#097;&#099;&#107;;</p>
<p> &#8211; Sleeping in &#097; cradle can offer &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; baby &#097; cosier space &#116;&#111; settle into;</p>
<p> &#8211; Swaddling &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; baby &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#097; blanket will &#103;&#105;&#118;&#101; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; baby &#097;&#110; extra dose of comfort &#097;&#110;&#100; security; </p>
<p> &#8211; &#116;&#104;&#101; &#114;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; kind of background: soft music &#097;&#110;&#100; dim lighting &#109;&#105;&#103;&#104;&#116; do &#116;&#104;&#101; trick. </p>
<p> <b>To soothe &#097; fussy baby, try:</b> </p>
<p>- Swaddling &#098;&#101;&#099;&#097;&#117;&#115;&#101; &#105;&#116; &#099;&#114;&#101;&#097;&#116;&#101;&#115; &#097; womb-like feeling;</p>
<p> &#8211; Non-nutritive sucking calms &#097; baby&#8217;s nerves. Pacifiers can &#097;&#108;&#115;&#111; do &#116;&#104;&#101; trick;</p>
<p> &#8211; &#8216;Wearing&#8217; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; baby &#097;&#110;&#100; walking around: &#119;&#104;&#105;&#108;&#101; &#104;&#101; &#111;&#114; she enjoys &#116;&#104;&#101; feeling of closeness &#097;&#110;&#100; &#116;&#104;&#101; rhythm of &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; walk, you can &#107;&#101;&#101;&#112; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; hands free for &#111;&#116;&#104;&#101;&#114; &#116;&#104;&#105;&#110;&#103;&#115;.</p>
<p> <b>To bottle feed &#097; baby &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; love, try:</b> </p>
<p>- Staying in close contact: physical connection &#097;&#110;&#100; eye-to-eye contact are linked &#116;&#111; brain development;</p>
<p> &#8211; &#116;&#097;&#107;&#105;&#110;&#103; &#105;&#116; slow: &#108;&#101;&#116; &#121;&#111;&#117;&#114; baby take his &#111;&#114; &#104;&#101;&#114; time &#097;&#110;&#100; enjoy &#116;&#104;&#101; pleasure;</p>
<p> &#8211; Not &#116;&#111; prop &#116;&#104;&#101; baby up &#119;&#105;&#116;&#104; &#097; bottle. &#116;&#104;&#105;&#115; can increase &#116;&#104;&#101; risk of choking, ear infections &#111;&#114; tooth decay.</p></p>
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