Can anything be done to reduce the size or wash it out

Hi Jeremy, yes many people have wet dreams although I have never had the pleasure of one.

Enlarged prostrate will cause you to pee a lot and need to get up at night & when you feel your balls one may be very large or have a lump on it or hurt to touch.

I've not had wet dreams, myself
but if you are uptight about sex yes I should think you could have them.

With regard to washing out the prostate
this is not possible as far as i know
but a prostatic massage would do much the same job.

If you wish to try and don't want to go to a professional
you could try a sex toy = like the Nexus Glide.
I think google could find it for you.

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