It's been about maybe, 4 or 5 months since I've ever gotten or given a *******. My ex-boyfriend, the last person I had it with, is a virgin (or atleast that's what he told me, but I trust him to be pretty confident that he is a virgin), but he has given/gotten a ******* once or twice before. what is the likelyhood of me contracting an STD, and I'm also curious to when you would notice symptoms for some STDs…like, I have heard this before, are there any STDs that actually never show any symptoms unless you are tested, or take a couple years to show some symptoms. are any of those STDs contractible through blowjobs, or just through unprotected sex?

You can get STDs (including the horrible ones like AIDS and HIV) through oral sex. you are not "being safe" by just giving blow jobs. please go to the doctor and be honest with her – get an STD screening. Go read about STDs and STIs – you need to educate yourself if you're going to protect yourself. be smart! 1 out 4 people have an std of some kind – those are pretty good odds that you'll catch something if you aren't safe.

i agree with well hiya! see your doctor !may u come to these related sites like "herpesanddating.net" or "DatingHerpesSingles.com" for help, many stds people there they experienced more and know more ,they must have goood ideas for that
take care!good luck!

Hello everyone, I had unprotected sex on May 12th, well lately I have been experiencing a white cloudy thin discharge.. sometimes it doesnt smell & sometimes it smells fishy… I have muscle aches from time to time, but their not a horrible pain, just a small ach in my leg joint or my arm…. I have back pain… but I am overweight & I've had a baby. and I have a common cold? do I have herpes?

ghornea and herpes (sorry for the spelling)
or maybe its some other…disease

early symptoms of gonorrhea

burning while urinating. check webmd.com

early symptoms: unprotected sex with someone you just picked-up.

penile pain and green or discolored discharge. see a doctor and always use condoms.

Unprotected sex last Sunday night,
I had my period two weeks before that.

When do the symptoms start showing
and when is the right time to take a pregnancy test?
Thanks.

Not until I was about 7 to 9 weeks pregnant, believe me you wouldn't know yet.
Different tests work in different way's some not until a few day's after your missed period, other you can take as early as 5 day's before your expected missed period.
If you don't want a baby, stop having sex.

The soonest symptoms will show is 2 weeks from then, soonest test would be 6 days before your next period with the first response brand

i didnt know i was preg w my 1st baby until i was already 4 and 1/2 months. my 2nd, i was 2 months before i found out. no symptoms at all

One option would be to take the morning after pill asap.

Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a couple of weeks now without a condom, we are completely faithful but for some reason we are concerned now (I know we should of thought about it earlier) about std's. Is there any danger now of us catching an std's from unprotected sex or would the damage already be done. Does it mean we are clean or just carriers? should we get tested? Is there any difference if I didn't finish inside her?

Yes there could still be a cause for concern. most common STIs are asymptomatic (have no symptoms) and they don't transmit 100% of the time. Meaning either of you could still have an STI and not have passed it to the other yet. And again, MOST STIs have NO SYMPTOMS so you can NEVER rely on the absence of symptoms as a diagnostic tool.

You both still need to be tested!

Some STIs can be spread with simple (genital) skin to skin contact/rubbing and ejaculation or sperm/vaginal fluids are not required for transmission to occur.

Make a date with your girlfriend and go together to be tested for STIs (and be sure and have a throat swab done if you engage in oral sex and a rectal swab if you engage in anal sex). And I would think about using condoms at least until you get the results.

Most STD's have no symptoms for weeks, months, or even years. just because you have no symptoms doesn't mean you don't have an STD.

Get tested. Having sex without a condom when you have no idea if you're infected is stupid.

No, it makes no difference if you don't ejaculate inside her. some STD's transmit through skin contact alone, and her vaginal fluids, or your pre-ejaculate can still carry an STD.

I really hope she's on the pill and you're not just relying on the pull-out method. Unless you want to be a daddy in the near future.

You can have sex with someone and be exposed to an STD and still not catch it. for example, some people have intercourse multiple times with a person with HIV and don't end up contracting the virus. On the other hand, some people have intercourse with a person with HIV just once and they contract it. Sex is risky business. my suggestion: get tested, it couldn't hurt.

it easy to get carried away with yourself on the first time you have intercourse with your new partner,. eveyone probably has at some point i know i have. (but single now so not really apply to me).
if you are concerned though i would go and get you and your patner tested just for peace of mind

A lot of STDs have no symptoms for the first few months, or even years. there are a few that affect only women, but men can be carriers (example: the form of herpes that causes cervical cancer–it has no symptoms for either sex but only women can get cancer from it). If either of you had sex with someone else before you started dating, and did not get tested afterwards, you both should do so now. It's cheap (and sometimes free) if you go to the health department. call and ask about it. you can make an appointment over the phone, and when you go, no one will be the wiser as to why you're there, except the nurse.

As to whether or not the damage is already done–it depends on a lot of things. best thing for you both to do would be to get tested, just to make sure. That way, if one of you has something that the other hasn't contracted yet, you can take preventative measures to ensure that the other one doesn't catch it.

It doesn't make a difference whether or not you finished inside her. some STDs are passed through skin-to-skin contact, and some through contact with bodily secretions–both of which the two of you have experienced whether you finished inside her or not.

If i had an std that i contracted over 1-2 months ago wouldnt i have symptoms and stuff till this day? i had unprotected sex with someone and am worried.

Many STDs have no symptoms for a long time after infection. the only way to find out if you have an STD is to get tested. you can check the website hivtest.org to find free testing sites in your area. Just enter your ZIP code.

Amongst the diseases i.e. stds, gonorrhea is the most infectious one causing infections to millions of people. Gonorrhea is commonly known as “the clap” and is the most common reason behind the disease occurs in women it is left untreated. the sexually transmitted diseases or std is commonly spread through unprotected sex without condom. Gonorrhea is also a type of std which can further affect the other organs if not treated properly. the possible way through gonorrhea or std can spread are penis, vagina, anus and mouth. it is possible that a mother can pass gonorrhea to her baby while childbirth.

The std like Gonorrhea is caused due to the infection of bacteria called as “Neisseria gonorrhoeae”. this bacterium can spread the infection to the unaffected parts of the body and can also cause serious health conditions in the new born baby. the causes of gonorrhea mainly include unprotected sexual intercourse. but it is not the only reason behind the infection because ejaculation is not required for an infection to occur. it can also spread with any type oral sex and can lead to the infection of throat, eyes and anus. the bacteria survive in the moist areas of the body so it does not affect the skin but especially from the skin of the fingers it can transported to the other parts of the body.

It is a strange thing that sometimes symptoms of Gonorrhea cannot see in men at all or it may be seen after 3 to 5 days after being infected by the bacteria. Sometimes Gonorrhea symptoms may be after 30 days. In men symptoms of gonorrhea are burning and pain urinating, a white or yellow substance from penis. the symptoms of gonorrhea in men can also be pain or swelling in the testicles. In women Gonorrhea symptoms can be mild or there won’t be any symptoms. the symptoms include increase in the vaginal discharge, burning sensation or pain urinating, bleeding between periods. These mild symptoms of Gonorrhea can be turned into serious symptoms if left untreated or ignored.

Though the symptoms of Gonorrhea seem mild but if left untreated then it may convert into complicated one. In men the symptoms can be worse like the infection can lead to the ducts attached to the testicles causing epididymitis. Gonorrhea can become serious illness as it affects the blood joints and the infected person can get HIV infection easily. In women it can cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) characterized by abdominal pain, fever and long term pelvic pain. People who are infected with HIV and Gonorrhea can infect the other person more easily compared to the person who is infected only with HIV.

It is very important to diagnose Gonorrhea or std in the early stage of disease. this diagnosis can be done in the std testing centers. the treatment of Gonorrhea includes single dose of antibiotic. though the best treatment for gonorrhea would be its prevention. the seriousness of this disease and the effects after leaving it untreated are very harmful that’s why it is advisable to wear condom during sexual activity. for women also it is essential to wear female condom throughout the act including oral sex. it is important to avoid multiple partners as decreases the chances of getting gonorrhea and other std. If you are involved with multiple partners then it is better to get check up regularly for gonorrhea and other std.

i haven't cheated or have unprotected sex in pass relationships, but now i have started to have unprotected sex with my partner who have unprotected sex several times,but resently i have seen symptoms that are related to genital herpes, d doctor said it could b herpes, my partner tested and it was negative. could it be possible that i have this virus and i have unprotected sex with him only, should i take this test too, and he is negative.

Perhaps your previous partner had it and passed it on to you and
you are not aware of it. Perhaps your current partner tested negative bc the virus has not multiplied extensively to be detected. maybe you should get checked. Remember condoms break and well now a days you can get STD's by oral sex. not to mention not everyone is honest.

yes go get the test also. cause i had the symptoms years ago and my partner never showed them. i no longer have had symptoms nor taken the meds. for years. even when got tested for it it was neg for me. so go get checked for your self. or peace of mind

go and have a test we you Dr, you can use protection, bur if you have oral sex and other person dint tell you if he have and he have a blister or breakout around he Mauser if possible do you have herpes

You could have had it for years and not known about it- it can lay dormant for a very long time, even life.

I don't fully understand your question but here goes. the only test that can determine herpes is a skin swab at the breakout site this virus uses your nervous system for travel not your blood stream. Many people have herpes of various forms and not all persons with herpes have outbreaks it can even be years after coming into contact with this form of the virus for it to emerge and is normally a sign of stress or a weakened system. It is not a good idea to engage in unprotected sex while the outbreak is occurring, and you should wait for several days after there is no inflammation of the tissues. there are medications that can help shorten the time it takes to heal, and lysine has showed study after study to be of a benefit in your diet to control the outbreaks.

I'm going to the clinic next week but am freaking out until then because I may still have something without having symptoms, right?

Absolutely correct that you may have something without showing symptoms.

Also, seriously consider using condoms, especially if you or your boy friend are not monogamous. I hope you're on birth control, and not just relying on pulling out or spermicide, or that you're ok with getting pregnant.

Do get blood work done, do get checked, and have your boyfriend get checked too.

Also, consider getting vaccinated for HPV if you're going to have unprotected sex.

Yes, it could be jock itch or yeast. Always good for you to get checked out for STDs tho…. most are easily cured with medication.

WHY isn't he getting checked out too??? He is the one with symptoms, and although I suspect it isn't serious, he could have something that could potentially infect you. You BOTH need to be checked for all STD's and then have a monogamous relationship to stay healthy…

all guys itch themselves down there.
but if you are really freakin out about it then just go to your clinic appt.
good luck. hope everything turns out okay.

Most of the answers are spot on. some guys are allergic to a females juices.

hopefully he just has jock itch…it is the same as athelete's feet but in the underware.
good luck

Yeah HPV is the main one that usually doesnt show symptoms but you have the virus. but he might just have a yeast infection cause guys get it too. Dont panic until you know for sure, but he should get tested cause he is experiencing symptoms and it would probably be easier to find something in him than in you. but yeah ask them to test you for HPV

I am 36 and 6 days late. I already have children and was not planning on more, so I do however recognize the symptoms of pregnancy. I have taken several home pregnancys tests and they all result in a negative reading? I did have unprotected sex so pregnancy could be a possibility. My mom go through menopause early she is convinced that I am going through perimenopause. anyone every experience similar, or know anything about this I have been doing some research and cannot find much information. HELP!