Last Updated: February 04. 2011 1:00AM Jeanne Phillips: Dear Abby 
Dear Abby: Everyone knows the economy has hit hard times and, as a result, more people are working past the age of retirement.
“Anita” is in her late 60s, and we are certain she is showing symptoms of dementia. She has worked in our office about three years, after working in this field for more than 30 years elsewhere. But if you saw her in our office today, you would think it was her first week.
Anita makes multiple mistakes daily, then sits at her desk and cries. Our supervisor insists there is nothing he or HR can do in regard to talking (gently) to her because she could sue the company.
What’s the right thing to do for everyone involved?
Stumped in California
Dear Stumped: I discussed your question with Nancy Bertrando, a respected California employment law specialist, who told me: “If a person is unable to perform the essential functions of her job — regardless of the reason — an employer does not have the obligation to keep the person in that position. however, regardless of whether your supervisor or HR thinks it is futile, Anita should be counseled and given the opportunity to fix the problem — if, indeed, it is fixable.”
Dear Abby: My husband runs an auto body shop and has always warned me to be extra careful in parking lots: “People don’t pay attention. They drive too fast,” etc. well, tomorrow I am going to the memorial service for a dear friend, “Mara.” She was only 46.
While Mara was putting her granddaughter into a stroller, they were hit. A woman driving too fast hit a car backing out of a parking space, careened off that car and ran over Mara. Mara was underneath the car until the fire department arrived and lifted it off her. Mara’s daughter saw it all.
A car can be as lethal as a gun. I didn’t “get it” before, but now I do.
Missing the Sister of My Heart
Dear Missing: I cannot stress enough how important it is to remain fully present while behind the wheel of a vehicle.
Readers, I hope you will review this woman’s letter and remember it the next time you’re “in a hurry.” it could save a life.
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